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Integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual:
Illuminating and working through — at the optimal
pace — whatever obstructs our well-being
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Taking the suffering out of our pain: Making wise use
of disappointment, disillusionment, illness, and unpleasant
sensation
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Understanding — and not just intellectually —
how our past (and what we’re doing with our past)
is shaping our present, and applying that understanding
to all areas of our life: Accessing and embodying deep
insight.
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Expanding the circle of self: Learning to develop compassion
for what we don’t like about ourselves.
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Turning fear into something not to fear: Neither avoiding
nor giving in to our fearfulness, by getting close enough
to it to cease treating it as a problem.
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Balancing the need for containment with the need for
release: Developing and maintaining healthy boundaries
without diluting our passion.
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Spiritual emergencies: Working through the disturbing
and disorienting phenomena that may arise in conjunction
with spiritual opening, so that emergency becomes emergence.
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Dreamwork: Appreciating, understanding and making wise
use of our dreams.
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Lucid dreaming: Learning to recognize that we are dreaming
while we are dreaming, and using this for healing and
spiritual deepening.
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Somatic knowing: Recognizing how our body — through
its structuring and memories — reveals both our
personal history and our current choices.
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Conscious relationship: Using relational difficulties
to generate a deeper intimacy, in which love and integrity
outshine reactivity.
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Turning anger into an ally and resource: Distinguishing
anger from aggression, learning that openly expressed
anger and compassion can coexist.
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Releasing sex (and everything else) from the obligation
to make us feel better: Learning that real happiness is
not in having, but in Being.
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Relating to our mind, emotions, sensations,
perceptions, and intentions rather than merely from
them: Exploring and using meditative practices.
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Freeing up blocked vitality and attention: No longer
committing our energy to life-negating activities.
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Finding intimacy with the Sacred in the midst of whatever
is happening: Recognizing that the Divine is not an alternative
reality, that there is no such thing as an insignificant
act, and that we are more than we can imagine.